Q: I`m a 27-year-old divorced woman. I married the foremost man I always had sex with, and we had a very vanilla sex life. My current boyfriend is really open. With him, I`ve tried being held down during sex, light bondage, dirty talk, gentle choking, etc. The sex is AMAZING. Here`s my problem: A few nights ago while we were watching TV and cuddling, he started to throw my body.
I asked if I could refer myself and if he would keep watching TV. I had the most intense orgasm of my spirit while he neglected me. My interest is that this submission might fall over into the relationship. I love that he sees it as a sexual kink and is very GGG, but I`m concerned that it could go to him thinking that I wish to be neglected in other aspects of the relationship.
Seeing as this is my second relationship and the 1st time I`ve been capable to gratify my submissive desires, I might be worrying over nothing. I`m feeling like an emotionally leotarded, sexually repressed teenager.
Scared Of Submission
A: Keep talking to your boyfriend, leotard, and you`ll be but fine.
At first it struck me as odd that you would be troubled by a good sweet moment of soft-focus, fuzzy-bunnies Dom/sub intimacy and not by the other, arguably more intense, SM games you`ve been performing with your boyfriend. There you are getting held down, tied up, talked down-and-dirty to, and "gently choked" (gentle or not, choking is a bad idea) _ and you`re worried that being ignored while you masturbate takes you into new and dangerously submissive territory?
After a moment`s thought, I realized why this specific game troubled you so much: All of that early stuff took office in obviously sexual contexts, i.e. it happened in the chamber while you were getting it on. This game-a plot you initiated-began during a bit of not specifically sexual intimacy. You were cuddling, you were watching TV,you weren`t having sex. If Dom/sub games can separate out when you`re just sitting there watching TV, who`s to say that Dom/sub games can`t go out when you`re doing the dishes? Or at the movies? Or having dinner with your parents?
You can give the Dom/sub dynamics you enjoy without having to care about them slopping over into other areas of your life, SOS, by being assertive, communicative and vigilant. If you can ask a man to dismiss you and continue watching TV while you masturbate, SOS, you should be capable to say this to him: "Being submissive turns me on when we`re having sex-and the moment I started masturbating, we were having sex-but if you address me like anything other than your equal when we`re not having sex,Sir, I will charge your fucking ass."
Q: My guy wants to occur in my mouth. I am fine with the act, but he produces like three tablespoons` worth of ejaculate. The just thing I can recall of is getting him most of the way there and letting him fall on my face. Any advice?
GGG Sex Partner
A: I measured out three tablespoons of half-and-half, GSP, and you couldn`t swim a kitty in it, much less a GGG sex partner. An adult should be capable to tap that back without much trouble.
Give the man a blowjob, GSP, and let him fall in your mouth. If there`s too much come to swallow, or if you can`t do to precisely time swallows to spurts, allow the excess ejaculate to run out of the corners of your mouth. If you don`t need to accept any ejaculate, close the top of your throat when he begins to do and sprinkle it all out-into your script or onto a towel, or just let it run down and complete his dick-once he`s done.
Q: I recently started college, and I met an awful woman at the Renaissance Club. Call her Jennifer. Older club members often assume new society members. Jennifer and her girlfriend, Robin, adopted me as their daughter. A couple weeks afterward, we decided to get a pet/Mistresses relationship between the trinity of us. I was contented with this because it would let me to get closer to Jennifer. One night, she and I "slept" together, and shortly afterward, Jennifer decided to put the pet/Mistress relationship on hold because she didn`t need to haul me into her relationship drama. Should I hold for them to split up, wait for Robin to leave us to get a pet/Mistress relationship again, or simply go on?
Ex-Pet Lesbian
A: Sword fights, adoptions, pets, Mistresses, faux-incest/pseudo-bestiality role-playing games-a lot has changed at Liberty University since I was an undergrad.
Look, EPL, if Jennifer and Robin are falling apart, step backwards and be patient. That way you won`t be held responsible by the balance of Renaissance Club once you and Jennifer resume your pet/Mistress/mommy/daughter/whatever routine.
Q: I am living with a man whom I deeply love. I recently noticed that he is watching porn when I am not around. My self-esteem crashed when I knowing this because he often claimed to be too tired to stimulate sex. At the same time, I noticed that since he started watching porn, we have had a lot more sex. Can you assist me form this out so I can bind up my wounds?
Bummed By Porn
A: I get much of letters from women-and about from men-complaining about "too commonplace for sex" partners sneaking off to watch porn. I had to take your letter twice to make sure I wasn`t seeing things: Your partner used to take he was too commonplace for sex, which presumably bummed you out, but now that he`s watching a little porn, you`re having a lot more sex _ and you`re still bummed out?
He`s using porn to get his juices flowing, BBP, and those juices are ultimately flow into you. Perhaps you should be thankful to porn for the way it`s improved your sex life.
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