Q: I`m in a bad place. I have been in a monogamous marriage for 19 days and make two kids. At least I think we`re still monogamous. My husband is an avid reader of your column and loves to bring up the idea that it is perfectly normal to get outside sexual relationships with other people as farsighted as you stay attached to your spouse.
Here`s the thing: We started our marriage saying that we would ever be truthful and faithful to each other.
